
Tommy Dorfman has simply printed her memoir, Possibly This Will Save Me. It contains particulars about her time showing on the hit present, 13 Causes Why, together with a short fling with fellow actor Brandon Flynn.
Dorfman, 33, performed the function of Ryan Shaver on the present, which made its debut on Netflix in 2017 and ran for 4 seasons.
Dorfman later got here out as a trans girl in 2021.
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Flynn performed fellow highschool pupil Justin Foley.
Very early throughout filming, on the second evening the solid acquired collectively to hang around, Dorfman says sparks flew between her and Flynn.
She had stepped onto the balcony of her home to have a cigarette.
“Inside a couple of puffs, I seemed over to search out that Brandon had joined me,” she writes. “His boyish tipsy appeal was intoxicating, he carried confidence with ease, and his blue eyes sparkled, maybe that is what individuals meant after they stated star high quality. No matter it was, Brandon embodied it.”
“We held one another’s gaze for what felt like eternally, and subsequent factor I knew, we have been up in his bed room, ripping one another’s garments off … It was lusty and enjoyable in probably the most lovely, magical of how.”
Dorfman says the “short-lived” romance lasted a couple of days. She realized Flynn was open to one thing extra severe, however “…I couldn’t provide something greater than informal enjoyable so finally, he referred to as it off.”
Flynn then grew to become concerned with fellow co-star Miles Heizer. This prompted surprising emotions of jealousy in Dorfman.
She questioned if she’d “made a horrible mistake.”
“Seeing Miles and Brandon so in love sparked an surprising jealousy in me, a craving for that pleasure and hearth, maybe much more severe emotions lingered for Brandon at the moment, however I couldn’t do something about it,” Dorfman wrote.
“My mattress was made, and I wanted to deal with the duty at hand: memorizing my traces.”
Subsequent marriages
Till the publication of Dorfman’s memoir, neither she nor Flynn, 31, had confirmed their temporary romance. In 2017, Heizer’s rep denied courting rumors between him and Flynn to Page Six.
Dorfman married Peter Zurkuhlen in 2016, however the pair cut up in 2021. After popping out as trans, she met Elise Williams. The couple married in 2023 however Dorfman filed for divorce earlier this month.
Flynn dated singer Sam Smith for a yr. He then went on to marry Canadian author Jordan Tannahill in 2024.
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