All the Different Sex Slang You Need to Know

BAREBACK

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: BAIR-back

Slang time period that’s fashionable within the homosexual group for penetrative anal intercourse performed and not using a condom. 

Etymology: A time period stolen from horse-riding — when you rode a horse and not using a saddle, you had been driving on its naked again. On this case, the comparability suggests a condom is sort of a saddle — maybe safer to experience with, but in addition maybe much less thrilling to make use of. 

“It appeared like we had been going to hook up, however then he stated he solely did bareback and that wasn’t cool with me.”

BDSM

Kink / Time period

Pronunciation: BEE-dee-ESS-emm

BDSM is a type of catch-all time period for intercourse that’s generally described as tough, intense or kinky, usually (however not all the time) involving leather-based and whips or different technique of bondage and punishment, numerous sorts of position play, and various kinds of sensation play reminiscent of sexual biting, choking, scratching, electrifying, slapping and spanking, and many others. Whereas it was once thought of considerably stunning, it’s grow to be an increasing number of widespread and mainstream in latest a long time, partly as a result of success of the BDSM-focused “50 Shades of Grey” e-book and film sequence. 

Etymology: Quick for bondage (tying somebody up), domination (being in management) and submission (letting another person have management), sadism (having fun with inflicting ache) and masochism (having fun with experiencing ache).

“Darren and I’ve been actually entering into BDSM these days there’s an area kink group that has fairly common meet-ups and they’re superior.”

BEAR

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: BAIR

A time period within the homosexual group for a giant, chunky, bushy homosexual man. A lot sought-after. Bears are sometimes thought of “daddies,” additionally. 

Etymology: Possible a reference to the truth that a wild grownup bear is a really giant, sturdy and furry creature. 

“I used to be tremendous into him, however he stated I wasn’t bushy sufficient. I assume he was solely in search of bears.”

BEARD

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: BEERD

Slang time period for a lady who dates, marries or is “linked” with a homosexual man with a purpose to make him appear to be he’s in a heterosexual relationship. Typically used relating to Hollywood {couples}, since traditionally there’s been stress for profitable male actors to ‘keep within the closet’ with a purpose to preserve their recognition with feminine followers. 

Etymology: Possible a reference to the truth that macho, manly males stereotypically develop thick beards — whereas homosexual males are sometimes thought of extra effeminate and thus is probably not perceived as prone to develop a lot facial hair. 

“I can’t imagine they’re getting married! I used to be so certain that he was homosexual and he or she was simply his beard.”

BEAST WITH TWO BACKS

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: BEEST with TOO BACKS

Slang time period for intercourse or the act of lovemaking. Not notably widespread within the twenty first century. 

Etymology: A reference to the truth that, when going through one another, two individuals having penetrative intercourse are joined on the crotch, like a single animal with a front-facing again and a back-facing again.

“Ugh, I’m so embarrassed. Final evening my roommate walked in on me and Lana making the beast with two backs… if you realize what I imply.”

BLUE BALLS

aka “involuntary testicular vasocongestion”

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: BLOO bawls

Slang time period for the ache males typically expertise from prolonged sexual arousal with out completion. Getting blue balls is primarily a problem for youthful individuals, reminiscent of teenage virgins partaking in lengthy bouts of dry-humping however by no means continuing to completion. 

Etymology: An excessive amount of oxygenated blood in your penis can truly make your scrotum look distinctly darker, giving it a purplish look — however “purple balls” doesn’t actually have the identical ring to it.

“We spent like 45 minutes dry humping however then she needed to go away to catch her flight. Worst case of blue balls ever, man.”

BUKKAKE

Porn / Style

Pronunciation: boo-COCK-kay

Porn style of Japanese origin the place somebody (usually a lady) is roofed in semen by a bunch of male contributors ejaculating on her, usually in a round formation. Will also be performed in an all-woman iteration that includes feminine ejaculation. 

Etymology: Bukkake is the Japanese phrase for the “act of splashing” — on this case, splashing semen on somebody’s face. 

“I’ve been watching a lot bukkake porn that now once I see a cinnamon roll, I really feel prefer it’s sexual.”

CAMEL TOE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: KAH-mell TOE

Descriptive time period for when a lady’s pants are very tight or experience up in order that her pubic mound is visibly outlined between her thighs. 

Etymology: So named for its obvious similarity to a camel’s toe. 

“Her pants had been so tight final evening… Complete camel toe state of affairs.”

CHODE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: CHODE

Slang time period for a penis that’s wider than it’s lengthy when erect. Additionally, all-purpose insult, usually used in opposition to a person. 

Etymology: Sadly, the origin for the phrase “chode” seems to be unknown. 

“I used to be tremendous excited for her to go down on me, however when she pulled down my pants, she stated, ‘I can’t suck on this, it is a chode.’”

COCK AND BALL TORTURE

Kink / Transfer

Pronunciation: KOK and BOL tor-CHUR

One thing you may ask a Dominatrix to carry out on you, if somebody hurting you by way of torturing your genitals sounds arousing. (Sometimes meaning you’re a submissive.)

Etymology: It’s only a description of the act — torturing somebody’s penis and testicles. 

“I’m such a sub… simply heard there’s one thing you may pay a Dominatrix to do to you referred to as ‘cock and ball torture’ and it’s so scorching I can’t take into consideration the rest in the meanwhile.”

COCK TEASE

aka “prick tease,” “tease”

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: KOK tees

Somebody (usually a lady) who leads individuals (usually males) on sexually with out having any curiosity in truly consummating. A cock tease might go away you with literal or metaphorical blue balls. 

Etymology: The verb “tease” can imply a number of various things — on this case, there’s a way of the combination of playfulness and cruelty within the thought of tempting somebody however not delivering. 

“My good friend referred to as his date a complete cock tease when she stated she didn’t prefer to sleep with guys on the primary date, so she laughed at him and walked out.”

COCKBLOCK

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: KOK-blok

An individual (or, much less usually, situation) who acts in such a manner as to forestall two individuals from hooking up or in any other case getting an opportunity to be alone collectively. Capabilities as a noun and in addition as a verb. 

Etymology: Possible popularized as a result of rhyming sound, but it surely’s an individual who actually blocks you from utilizing your penis in a sexual sense, so “cockblock” is sensible. 

“I used to be so certain that we had been going to hook up, however their roommate saved on dragging us into conversations about politics and stuff. What a cockblock.”

COUGAR

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: KOO-gar

An older girl (usually in her late 30s to 50s) who particularly seeks out male sexual companions considerably youthful than herself, both for informal intercourse or for romantic relationships. Some cougars are MILFs, however not all MILFs are cougars. 

Etymology: Dates again to not less than 1999 — older ladies who go after youthful guys are conceived as predatory animals, like a cougar searching down smaller prey. 

“I like going to wine bars now… They’re all the time filled with scorching older ladies. Complete cougartown.”

CREAMPIE

Porn / Transfer

Pronunciation: KREEM-pye

A creampie is a porn time period for a intercourse act that completed with a person ejaculating into a lady’s vagina, usually involving a shot displaying the semen dripping out afterwards. Will also be used as a verb, denoting the identical act. 

Etymology: Just like the intercourse act, actual cream pies are primarily white-coloured and doubtlessly messy.

“I requested Cheryl if she would let me end inside her, and he or she stated if I needed to creampie her, I must pay for her IUD.”

CUCKOLD

aka cuck, cucking

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: KUK-old

Time period for a person who’s cheated on by his spouse, usually by larger/stronger males often known as “bulls,” usually whereas he watches, usually whereas he masturbates, usually whereas he’s verbally or bodily abused by his spouse/the opposite man or males. Additionally a time period for the porn style that includes such acts. In some instances, cuckolding has a definite racial connotation — effete or weak white males watching whereas sturdy, highly effective black males dominate their wives sexually. 

Etymology: The time period “cuckolding” comes from the phrase “cuckoo,” since, for the cuckoo hen species, the feminine usually entertains a number of male sexual companions. 

“I really feel bizarre admitting it, however sure, the considered my spouse cucking me actually turns me on.”

CUMSHOT

Porn / Transfer

Pronunciation: KUM-shot

Porn time period for the second when a person ejaculates on digicam.

Etymology: What you see on display in porn (and in movie and TV usually) is named a shot — so a cumshot is a shot of the second when a person cums. 

“I used to be watching porn final evening and my wi-fi lower out simply earlier than the cumshot. Complete anti-climax… Actually.”

DADDY

aka “zaddy,” “daddy Dom”

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: DAH-dee

Time period for a horny man with stereotypically father-like/masculine qualities — usually older, bodily sturdy, and financially well-off. Whereas the identify suggests incestuous want, that’s not all the time the case — daddies are a lot in demand each for homosexual males and for ladies and sometimes it’s a comparatively surface-level description. Nonetheless, in some instances, there’s a want for a kinkier, incest-themed roleplay model, like DDLG, or “daddy dom/little lady,” which is a Dom/sub class of BDSM the place a usually older man and youthful girl will have interaction in intercourse acts and sexualized play than incorporate components of a father/daughter relationship. 

Etymology: Daddies are males who remind us of male patriarchs — older, stronger, extra financially effectively off, like a father compared to their youngsters. 

“We had been hooking up, and he or she stated to me, ‘Ooh, spank me, daddy.’ I wasn’t certain whether or not to be weirded out or turned on. Possibly a little bit little bit of each.”

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DAISY CHAIN

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: DAY-zee CHAIN

A intercourse time period for a bunch of three or extra individuals every performing intercourse acts on the subsequent particular person. Much like a 69 in that you simply’re each giving and receiving on the similar time, however on this case with a bigger variety of individuals — and probably the individuals on the ends are solely partaking in one of many two actions. 

Etymology: This intercourse act is type of like a series, and daisies are flowers which might be ofter linked collectively by their stems to type a series or circle. 

“So I had a foursome final evening.” “Wow! What was it like?” “Nicely, we type of shaped a daisy chain somewhat than everybody making an attempt to suit into the identical factor or splitting off into pairs. It was tremendous scorching.”

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DEEP-THROATING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: deep-THROH-ting

A type of fellatio the place the particular person performing oral intercourse makes an attempt to take their companion’s penis as deeply into their mouth as doable, to the purpose the place it strikes down their throat. 

Etymology: Popularized by the 1972 porn movie “Deep Throat,” which featured a lady who obtained sexual pleasure from having deep oral penetration. 

“I like it when the particular person blowing me can actually deep-throat me, however my girlfriend’s gag reflex is so intense I’m undecided she’ll ever be capable of.”

DENTAL DAM

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: DEN-tell DAM

A type of safety to forestall contraction of STIs from cunnilingus — usually a skinny sheet of latex, type of like a condom for a lady’s vulva. In comparison with condoms, dental dams should not almost as fashionable, nonetheless. 

Etymology: Dental dams had been initially utilized in dentistry to cowl a affected person’s face and surrounding tooth whereas a dentist labored on a particular part of their mouth. 

“He instructed me he would solely go down on me if we used a dental dam, and I instructed him I appreciated his dedication to safer intercourse, however no thanks.”

DIRTY SANCHEZ

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: DER-tee SAN-chez

The identify for an accumulation of fecal residue on an individual’s higher lip that may happen when performing ass-to-mouth intercourse. In a vein with different iconically named slang phrases like “Scorching Karl” (any intercourse act the place one participant’s feces will get on the opposite’s physique), “Rusty Trombone,” (giving an individual a rimjob and a handjob concurrently), “Donkey Punch” (punching a lady behind her head whereas having anal intercourse), and “Blumpkin” (receiving a blowjob on a bathroom whereas defecating), it’s one thing that appears to exist extra for teenage boys to joke about than as an an precise intercourse act or time period. 

Etymology: Since fecal residue on one’s higher lip may resemble a mustache, and stereotypically, Hispanic males usually have mustaches, and Sanchez is a Hispanic final identify, “Soiled Sanchez” type of is sensible. 

“He instructed me he wouldn’t eat my ass out as a result of he was afraid of getting a Soiled Sanchez… After that, I had a tough time taking him significantly.”

DOGGING

Kink / Style

Pronunciation: DAW-ging

Public sex, usually in conditions that particularly invite the participation of strangers. 

Etymology: Believed to be a British intercourse slang time period. Initially from males who watched {couples} having public intercourse — ‘dogging’ them within the sense of being watchful or following them, as a canine may. 

“It seems we each love dogging… We’ll drive out to a pleasant little spot and meet up with some individuals from on-line and simply go at it. It’s extremely scorching.”

DOMINATRIX

aka “domme”, “professional domme”

Kink / Persona

Pronunciation: DOH-mih-NAY-trix

A Dominatrix is a intercourse employee — who usually works out of a location referred to as a “dungeon” shared with different Dominatrixes — specializing in sexual kinks and BDSM. Sometimes, dommes don’t have interaction in full penetrative intercourse with purchasers, somewhat they’ll dominate paying submissive purchasers in numerous methods — soiled speak and role-playing, spanking and numerous types of sensation play, cock and ball torture, and many others. 

Etymology: Dominatrix is the feminine type of “dominator” in Latin. 

“I met somebody at a bar lately who was simply, like, the sexiest particular person ever. She was flirting with me actual onerous and hitting all my dirty-talk buttons. Seems she’s an precise skilled Dominatrix. I can’t inform if I need her to be my girlfriend or if I wish to rent her.”

DOPPELBANGER

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: DOPP-ell-BANG-er

Homosexual slang for a sexual companion who appears to be like identical to you — like you can be a pair of twins. 

Etymology: Derived from the German phrase doppelgänger, actually a “double-goer,” or your precise double. 

“Oh my God, did you see Dylan and his new boyfriend? Actual doppelbanger state of affairs.”

DTF

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: DEE-tee-eff

DTF is an adjective indicating that an individual is broadly prepared to have interaction in intercourse acts, or probably prepared to take action with a particular particular person. 

Etymology: DTF is solely brief for “all the way down to f*ck” — “down” right here that means “prepared” and “prepared.”

“We Tinder matched at 11:15 and he or she had invited me over for drinks earlier than midnight. That’s why I knew she was completely DTF.”

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DOWN-LOW

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: DOWN-loh

Adjective and noun denoting somebody who’s homosexual however within the closet and perceived as straight, or somebody who secretly engages in gay exercise whereas sustaining a heterosexual look. 

Etymology: Of African-American origin, seemingly from the late ‘90s or early 2000s. The implication is {that a} man who’s on the down-low is hiding his true sexuality ‘under’ a public facade of heterosexuality. 

“Do you assume Grant is admittedly straight? I heard he was on the down-low…” 

EROTIC ASPHYXIATION

Kink / Transfer

Pronunciation: eh-RAW-tick as-FIX-ee-AY-shun

Apply of partaking in strangulation throughout intercourse to intensify pleasure, as decreased oxygen movement can result in a “rush”-like sensation. Will be achieved by a partner choking you or alone whereas masturbating (“autoerotic asphyxiation”). Will be fairly harmful and result in mind damage and even dying if carried out improperly. 

Etymology: Asphyxiation comes from the Greek phrase “asphuxa” that means “with out pulse,” however in English means dropping the flexibility to breathe. 

“I can’t inform if I like it when he chokes me as a result of I like feeling him in management, or I’m into erotic asphyxiation, or each. However rattling, sure, choking makes me moist as hell.”

FACESITTING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: FAYCE-sid-ing

Facesitting is an oral intercourse place the place one participant lies down, and the opposite positions their genitals on their face to obtain oral pleasure. Simpler if the sitter has a clitoris, however nonetheless doable if the sitter has a penis.

Etymology: Actually, sitting on somebody’s face — or not less than squatting proper over it. 

“I got here like, 5 minutes in. However I knew she was into facesitting, so she climbed as much as my mouth, and I licked her clit till she got here, too.”

FACIAL

Porn / Transfer

Pronunciation: FAY-shell

A facial is a porn time period for a person ejaculating on his companion’s face. Sometimes happens on the very finish of a scene or film — during which case it could rely as each a cash shot and a cumshot. 

Etymology: In all probability a winking reference to the noun “facial” that means, “a magnificence remedy for the face,” usually within the type of a cream of some type that ladies would rub into their faces, circa early Twentieth century America. 

“I can’t imagine this, however my hook up final evening was truly into the thought of me facialing her. I assume we each acquired what we needed.”

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FELCHING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: FELL-ching

Slang time period for sucking semen out of an anus after an anal sex ejaculation. 

Etymology: The time period goes not less than way back to the ‘70s, but it surely’s not clear what the origin of the phrase is, precisely. 

“I assumed I used to be the kinky one, however then after he got here, he pulled out and sucked his load out of my asshole.” “Oh my God, he felched you?”

FLUFFER

Porn / Persona

Pronunciation: FLUFF-err

Time period for an worker on a porn movie shoot whose job is to maintain the male star’s penis erect between takes. 

Etymology: Seems so far again to the Nineteen Seventies or ‘80s, when digicam know-how on the time meant extra time between takes, and thus required actors to be erect for longer stretches of time. 

“My buddy instructed me he acquired a job working in porn, and I stated, “Together with your tiny dick? No manner. They should have employed you as a fluffer.’” 

FROT

aka frottage

Kink / Transfer

Pronunciation: FRAWT

Frot is a time period for a intercourse act that point out rubbing in opposition to an individual or object somewhat than partaking in any type of penetration. Typically signifies rubbing your self in opposition to one other particular person in a public place, which is a intercourse crime. Much less legal is “dry humping,” when two individuals rub in opposition to one another consensually with their garments nonetheless on — a standard staple of teenage relationships. 

Etymology: Frot derives from the French verb for rubbing (“frotter”).

“Dan and I’ve been actually entering into frot these days. It’s simply so… uncooked and passionate feeling him pressed up in opposition to me like that.”

FUTANARI

aka “futa”

Porn / Style

Pronunciation: FOO-tuh-NAH-ree

Futanari is a sort of porn (usually animated or utilizing 3D animation) that includes ladies with giant — usually impossibly giant — penises. Typically their sexual companions are fellow futanari, typically different lovely ladies with out penises. 

Etymology: Futanari is the Japanese phrase for hermaphrodite, a scientific time period for an individual (or animal) with each female and male genitalia. 

“Have you ever ever heard of futanari? Yeah… It’s wild, however futa porn is such a turn-on for me.”

GANGBANG

Kink / Transfer

Pronunciation: GANG-bang

A gangbang is group intercourse the place three or extra males have interaction in intercourse acts with a single particular person, usually with not less than two — if not all of them — penetrating the recipient on the similar time. In some instances, a gang bang may very well be carried out by dozens of contributors. 

Etymology: As with “cockblock,” “gangbang” might need been popularized merely as a result of rhyme, and never as a result of any precise gang-related connotations — merely that lots of people are having intercourse with, or “banging” one particular person. 

“Final evening Sheri and I did a Sure/No/Possibly listing collectively to determine what intercourse stuff we had been each into, and guess what? It seems we each discover the thought of a gangbang tremendous scorching. So now I would like to search out a number of different guys who wish to be a part of us…”

GAYDAR

Queer / Time period

Pronunciation: GAY-dar

The flexibility to inform whether or not somebody is homosexual (or lesbian, or in any other case queer) or not, primarily based on stereotypical understandings of homosexual conduct. As a result of homosexual individuals usually must or want to cover their sexuality, determining whether or not somebody is homosexual will be tough, main fellow queer individuals (or just curious straight individuals) to attempt to discern whether or not somebody’s homosexual primarily based on how they speak, how they carry themselves bodily, what their pursuits are, and so forth. 

Etymology: Portmanteau of the phrases “homosexual” and “radar.”

“So then he began asking me which of the 2 turtlenecks I favored higher, the teal or the quartz, and my gadar began pinging like loopy.”

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GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: gurl-FREND ex-PEE-ree-ence

Service supplied by high-end escorts and intercourse employees the place purchasers pay for the expertise of a complete relationship, not simply intercourse acts — issues like saying “I like you,” spending high quality time collectively, happening dates, and many others. Rather more costly than merely paying somebody to have intercourse with you. The time period was popularized by a film (and later, TV present) of the identical identify. 

Etymology: You’re actually getting the expertise of getting a girlfriend — however paying for it. 

“I’m so jealous of fellows who’ve the cash to pay for the complete girlfriend expertise. I want I might afford that from the lady I’ve been seeing. The intercourse is nice however I simply need a bit extra from her, you realize?”

GLORY HOLE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: GLOH-ree HOLE

A gap lower in a wall, usually in a toilet or rest room stall, the place a person can insert his penis and have intercourse acts carried out on it anonymously by the particular person on the opposite facet. Additionally used as an adjective to explain the porn style the place this occurs. 

Etymology: The time period had been in use in different senses because the early nineteenth century, however gained a sexual connotation within the Nineteen Forties. Doubtlessly a reference to “glory” as a sort of utmost sexual pleasure. 

“A buddy of mine instructed me the membership he goes to has a glory gap within the males’s room… I requested him if he’d ever used it, however he wouldn’t inform me. It acquired me type of curious, although…”

GOLDEN SHOWER

Kink / Transfer

Pronunciation: GOAL-den SHAH-wurr

Slang time period for urinating on somebody in a sexual context. Sometimes one thing practiced by individuals into “urolagnia,” the technical time period for “piss play” or “water sports activities.” Golden showers are thought of fairly kinky by many individuals, however they’re undoubtedly extra mainstream than enjoying with feces (“scat play”). 

Etymology: Golden bathe actually describes urine flowing down over somebody, since pee is usually considerably yellowish — nonetheless usually in golden bathe porn, it’s a lot nearer to clear, since performers drink a whole lot of water so as to have the ability to urinate extra, which suggests they’re extra hydrated, which dilutes the colour of the pee. 

“I by no means actually knew she was freaky like that till at some point I requested her if she needed to bathe with me and he or she stated, ‘Certain… however provided that it’s a golden bathe.’”

GOONING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: GOO-ning

Slang time period for masturbating. Gooning differs from straight-up ‘bating’ in a number of delicate methods, although some individuals could use them interchangeably. Gooning could also be extra seemingly for use to explain actually diving into the pleasure of masturbation and dropping your self within the expertise, in addition to turning into vocal throughout the course of, and could also be much less prone to be related to climaxing on the finish, just like edging. Gooning is about unchecked enjoyment of self-pleasure.

Etymology: Goons are stereotypically senseless, violent individuals, usually henchmen for wealthy villains. Gooning, then, is totally letting free and giving in to your baser instincts.

“After my match bailed on our date I used to be feeling unhappy… however then I realized I might keep in and simply have a top-tier goon sesh.”

MILE HIGH CLUB

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: mile HIE klub

Time period for the individuals who have had intercourse whereas on an airplane in mid-air. It has grow to be more durable to affix post-9/11 as a result of elevated airline regulation and safety measures. 

Etymology: Seems so far again to the Nineteen Seventies. Planes usually fly nearer to six or 7 miles above floor at cruising altitude, however “Mile excessive membership” has a pleasant ring to it. 

“Samantha and I are flying to Rome subsequent week. I’ve all the time needed to get into the Mile excessive membership, however actually with the best way air journey is today… perhaps I’ll accept only a informal makeout in our seats.”

MILF

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: MILF

A MILF is usually a cougar — however particularly one who has youngsters. Accompanied by the much less fashionable variants DILF, and GMILF/GPILF. Typically used a reputation for the porn style that includes older actresses having intercourse with youthful males or ladies. MILFs are typically cougars. 

Etymology: MILF is an acronym for “Mom I’d Prefer to F*ck.”

“Man, did you see Doug’s mother? She is such a MILF!”

MONEY SHOT

Porn / Time period

Pronunciation: MUH-nee SHOT

Porn time period for footage of a male actor ejaculating, usually on his companion’s physique or face, usually on the climax of the porn movie. Each cash shot is a cumshot, however not each cumshot is a cash shot, since porn movies usually function a number of cumshots. Over time, the time period has come to imply the climactic or pivotal shot in different media, too. 

Etymology: So named due to the notion that viewers crave seeing the second of male orgasm, and the film wouldn’t be value something with out it. 

“Final evening my mother walked in on me watching porn… I panicked and hit pause but it surely was proper on the cash shot. Evidently, issues had been awkward at breakfast this morning.”

NETFLIX AND CHILL

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: NET-flix and CHILL

Relationship euphemism primarily based across the fashionable streaming service for an evening the place you invite somebody over to your home ostensibly to “watch Netflix and chill” however truly, the first motivation is to have intercourse collectively. Nonetheless, after the time period grew to become mainstream, a few of its sexual nature appeared to fade, as individuals started to jokingly use it to easily imply watching one thing on Netflix with out truly doing something, whether or not alone or with a companion. 

Etymology: The phrase gained recognition on Twitter, seemingly initially being utilized by African-American customers, in 2014.

“So did issues ever work out with that lady you had been crushing on?“ “Nah. I requested her over to Netflix and chill, however she by no means responded. Possibly she solely goes out with guys who wish to take her on actual dates.“

NOOKIE

aka “nooky”

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: NUK-ee

Largely outdated slang time period for intercourse. Obtained a giant enhance within the public consciousness due to Limp Bizkit’s 1999 music “Nookie.” 

Etymology: Not less than as previous because the early Twentieth century — probably from a Dutch phrase for intercourse. 

“He stated he spends like half the day jerking off daily and I stated, ‘Wow, you concentrate on nookie that a lot?’”

PAWG

Porn / Persona

Pronunciation: POG

This one is a little bit of a problematic one, in no small half as a result of it type of implies that ladies’s butts are otherwise formed relying on their race — and never, say, different components like age, way of life and genetics.

Etymology: Pawg is a slang time period which will have originated in porn — it’s merely the acronym for the phrase “phat-ass white lady.”

“I’ve been watching a whole lot of pawg porn laterly — I like a woman with a thick behind.”

PEARL NECKLACE

Porn / Time period

Pronunciation: pirl NEK-liss

When a person ejaculates on a lady’s neck and higher chest — usually after she has given him a blowjob whereas kneeling. 

Etymology: Strands or ropes of white-ish semen round a lady’s neck may evoke a pearl necklace, which is made up of equally white-ish valuable beads. 

“Janet’s been begging me to get her a pearl necklace for years… Nicely, final evening I lastly gave her one! Simply not the type you purchase in a retailer.”

PEGGING

Queer / Transfer

Pronunciation: PEG-ing

Pegging is a intercourse act the place a person’s anus is penetrated, usually by a dildo or different anus-focused intercourse toy, usually by an individual and not using a penis, typically manually and typically utilizing a strap-on.

Etymology: The time period dates again to 2001, when well-known intercourse and relationship recommendation author Dan Savage held a contest to coin a time period for the act. A peg is usually a brief cylindrical object that stands out from a wall or different flat floor, so in that sense, it’s just like a strap-on dildo.  

“I attached with a woman final evening who needed to know if she might peg me.“ “So did you say sure?“ “No… I used to be too shocked. But it surely did make me type of curious.“

PLAY

Kink / Time period

Pronunciation: PLAY

Slang for BDSM or different queer/kink-oriented intercourse — together with subcategories reminiscent of “bloodplay,” “edgeplay,” “ageplay,” and many others.. See additionally “play celebration,” a intercourse celebration that’s centered on kink or BDSM somewhat than normative intercourse acts.

Etymology: Doubtlessly a reference to the truth that these acts, whereas doubtlessly stunning or severe, are performed for pleasure, and thus, in some sense, playful. 

“A good friend of mine invited me to one among his kinky play events, however after I requested him what they’d be getting as much as, I wasn’t certain I’d really feel snug in that atmosphere.”

PRINCE ALBERT

Kink / Time period

Pronunciation: prints AL-birt

A piercing the place a metallic bolt goes by means of the shaft of a penis, usually popping out the urethral opening on one finish and under the pinnacle on the opposite finish. 

Etymology: The time period dates again to an city legend circulated within the Nineteen Seventies that Prince Albert, a consort of Queen Victoria, had such a piercing. 

“The final man I matched with on Tinder needed to know if I’d ever sucked a pierced dick.” “Wow! So that you assume he had a Prince Albert?”

QUEEF

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: KWEEF

A fart-like noise that happens when air escapes a lady’s vagina throughout sexual activity. 

Etymology: Origin unknown. Probably an onomatopoeia. 

“So there we had been, having the perfect intercourse of our lives, when abruptly she queefed! After that, we had been laughing too onerous to maintain going.”

QUICKIE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: KWIK-ee

Time period for a quick intercourse act, often just some minutes in size, actually because it’s performed in public or, for example, when one or each contributors must be elsewhere — at work, or at an occasion, and many others. A quickie that takes place throughout a number of contributors’ lunch break is known as a “nooner,” since it could happen round 12 midday. 

Etymology: The time period is a noun derived from the adjective “fast,” or quick. 

“My new job is definitely fairly near her condominium, so yesterday on my lunch break I snuck over and we had a little bit quickie collectively.”

RED WINGS

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: RED wings

Blood stains on an individual’s face when performing oral intercourse on somebody who’s menstruating. One thing you can “earn,” like a badge, since theoretically it requires braveness to lick somebody’s clitoris whereas there is likely to be blood of their vagina. Nonetheless, relying on the menstruator’s movement, the place they’re of their cycle and whether or not they’re utilizing a tampon or a cup, there won’t be any blood popping out regardless.  

Etymology: A supposed description of the visible of purple blood smears on both facet of somebody’s mouth like literal purple wings drawn on their face. 

“I earned my purple wings final evening whereas happening on Kimmy… She was a little bit freaked out by it but it surely didn’t trouble me in any respect.”

SAFEWORD

Kink / Time period

Pronunciation: SAYF-werd

A phrase utilized by individuals partaking in BDSM intercourse to point that the dominant partner ought to cease what they’re doing instantly. Replaces the phrase “No” or “Don’t” or “Cease” when individuals wish to have interaction in intercourse the place a dominant companion ignores a submissive companion’s pleas. A safe word is likely to be an unusual or non-sexual time period that’s unlikely to return up in every other context, so there’s no uncertainty about what is supposed when it’s used. 

Etymology: Merely the phrases “secure” and “phrase” collectively, to suggest that it’s a phrase whose use will hold you secure when you’re not feeling snug. 

“After I instructed him I needed to experiment with edgier stuff, we got here up with a safeword collectively… ‘Pineapple.’”

SCISSORING

Queer / Transfer

Pronunciation: SIH-zur-ing

A intercourse transfer widespread in lesbian porn (however debatably fashionable in precise lesbian intercourse) the place two ladies rub their crotches collectively.

Etymology: The time period is a reference to the truth that when two ladies’s legs are unfold and so they’re touching crotches, it’s a bit like two pairs of scissors opened to intersect with one another.

“I like watching porn of girls scissoring, however a good friend of mine instructed me actual lesbians don’t even try this, so now I don’t know what to assume.”

SMEGMA

aka “dick cheese”

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: SMEG-muh

A white-ish, cheese-like substance that may type beneath a person’s foreskin if he doesn’t clear it often. Sometimes composed of a combination of sweat, pores and skin cells and semen and carrying a strongly disagreeable style. 

Etymology: “Smegma” is the Greek phrase for “cleaning soap” — doubtlessly used as such as a result of it considerably resembles a powdered detergent. 

“Guys actually need to scrub their junk! Final time I went down on a date, I acquired a mouth filled with smegma! Yuck!”

SNOWBALLING

Porn / Transfer

Pronunciation: SNOH-baw-ling

The act of passing semen forwards and backwards by kissing, typically between the particular person performing fellation and the receiver, and typically between the particular person performing the fellatio and one other participant. 

Etymology: Sometimes, rolling a snowball down a snow-covered hill will outcome within the ball accumulating snow because it rolls, thus “snowballing” in a non-sexual context means to build up or develop in measurement. Other than the comparability of semen to a different white substance (on this case snow but in addition to whipped cream and pearls in different slang), if the semen is being handed forwards and backwards throughout snowballing, it could combine with saliva, step by step showing to extend in quantity. 

“My fantasy is to have two ladies suck me off, after which once I come, they snowball it forwards and backwards between them.”

 STEALTHING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: STELL-thing

Time period for when a man having penetrative intercourse whereas utilizing a condom quietly slips the condom off with out his companion noticing, then continues to have intercourse unprotectedly. Since intercourse and not using a condom can really feel extra intense, stealthing may appear to be a simple solution to get round a companion wanting you to put on a condom — but it surely might then result in STI transmission or undesirable pregnancies. It’s additionally a deep violation of belief and consent, main some to match it to rape. 

Etymology: Initially coined to explain not disclosing you’ve got an STI (i.e. being secretive, or ‘stealthy’) it now primarily describes agreeing to make use of a condom and them eradicating it, somewhat than pretending you don’t must put on one. 

“Then abruptly halfway by means of intercourse, he pulled out and afterwards it felt completely different. And I used to be freaking out as a result of I used to be anxious he was stealthing me.”

TEABAGGING

Intercourse / Transfer

Pronunciation: TEE-bag-ing

Plopping your testicles on one thing — usually a sleeping or in any other case unsuspecting particular person and probably their face/head — or totally into somebody’s mouth. Sometimes the province of extraordinarily immature males, frat boys and video players. 

Etymology: The time period is a reference to the concept a pair of testicles descending into an open mouth is just like a teabag being dropped right into a mug of scorching water with a purpose to make tea. 

“Ugh, I hate my little brother. Yesterday I took a nap on the sofa and once I wakened, he was teabagging me! I’m gonna break his life.” 

THIRD BASE

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: THURD bayce

In America, individuals usually affiliate intercourse with baseball lingo. Generally, first base is kissing/making out, second base includes touching breasts or genitals along with your arms, third base is oral intercourse, and house is penetrative intercourse. 

Etymology: The sexual bases system seemingly developed within the early Twentieth century so that individuals might discuss intercourse acts with out utilizing the extra taboo precise sexual terminology. 

“We’d by no means gone previous kissing earlier than, however final evening we acquired to second base collectively for the primary time — I can’t cease fascinated by it.”

TOP

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TAWP

A homosexual man who enjoys penetrating and being “on prime,” or controlling the motion, also referred to as a “pitcher.” Versus a “backside,” or “catcher,” who is usually the one being penetrated. Those that are snug doing each are often known as “change,” or “vers,” brief for “versatile.” A “energy backside” is somebody who enjoys being penetrated however prefers to be extra controlling/dominant somewhat than passive throughout intercourse; a “celebration backside” is a homosexual man who engages in intercourse at events the place he get penetrated by a number of companions, with a lot of them ejaculating in his anus. 

Etymology: A reference to the truth that the highest is “above” the underside — in some instances actually however in any other case, as a result of the highest is in management, not less than semantically. 

“I’m so sick of Grindr.” “Why? As a result of it’s all bottoms and no tops?”

TRADE

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TRAYD

Homosexual slang time period for a straight-coded man with a rough-and-tumble attraction who participates in intercourse acts with homosexual males, doubtlessly gaining monetary favors in return.

Etymology: Doubtlessly a reference to the notion of straight or straight-seeming males buying and selling sexual favors for cash. 

“What about Ken… do you assume he may…” “What? Do I feel he’s commerce? No manner. He’s tremendous dedicated to his girlfriend.”

TRUFFLE BUTTER

Intercourse / Time period

Pronunciation: TRUH-full BUD-der

Slang time period for an accumulation of fecal matter across the entrance to the vagina after a heterosexual couple switches from anal to vaginal penetration. Relatedly, the Dan Savage-coined time period “santorum,” a combination of fecal matter and lube that accumulates across the opening of the anus throughout anal intercourse between males. 

Etymology: Precise truffle butter — that’s, butter combined with truffles — predates the sexual that means, which seems to have cropped up within the 2010s, and was popularized partly by the 2015 Nicki Minaj music “Truffle Butter.” 

“God, she appears to be like so good in these denims… I’d even eat up her truffle butter only for an opportunity to the touch that booty.”

TWINK

Queer / Persona

Pronunciation: TWINK

Homosexual slang for a thin, enticing boyish male, usually with little to no physique hair and total considerably effeminate. Basically, the other of a bear. 

Etymology: The precise historical past of the phrase seems to be in dispute, however seemingly dates to the mid-Twentieth century, both British or American in origin. 

“Roger retains texting me dick pics… He’s so thirsty.” “Nicely, you understand how a lot he loves twinks — that’s you to a T.”

UNICORN

Intercourse / Persona

Pronunciation: YOU-nuh-korn

Slang time period for a bisexual, pansexual or in any other case sexually versatile girl who’s up for becoming a member of heterosexual {couples} for an FFM threesome. 

Etymology: So-named as a result of, just like the legendary creatures often known as unicorns, they’re extraordinarily uncommon and magical — not less than in principle. 

“At any time when I match with one other lady on Tinder today, it seems to be a woman in a relationship with a man in search of a 3rd.” “So that you don’t wish to be some fortunate couple’s unicorn?”

UPSKIRT

Porn / Style

Pronunciation: UPS-kirt

Upskirt movies heart on footage of unsuspecting ladies’s crotches whereas they stroll round in public. Actually creepy, and in addition not very authorized. 

Etymology: The identify comes from the truth that the digicam angle is actually pointing up their skirts to see their underwear.

“I discover upskirt porn actually upsetting. It turns me on, however understanding that these ladies didn’t consent to being filmed… I simply can’t watch it anymore.”

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